Fetish Dating & BDSM in Belgium

Fetish & Bondage in Belgium

For many perverted Belgians, bondage is a huge component of their interaction with their fetish partner. It can bring a sense of happiness to both partners in the form of aesthetic, physical, and erotic delight. Though bondage could be a somewhat perilous adventure, many people find the appeal is the peril. Therefore, being unable of getting out of bindings can produce a sense of satisfaction in both the bottom and the Top. It's captivating to see the diverse reasons lots of people give for taking part in bondage, and mine aren't too terribly far from theirs.

Tops often engage in bondage for a variety of reasons. These include having the chance to dominate their partner's responses, having free openness to their erogenous zones, and even simply having power. Too often we face the daily anxiety and stress of being at the disposition of the collective-that is to say we don't have complete control over the things that take place through the course of our lives. Being a Top (or Master, Mistress, etc.) can allow us that feeling of control that we ache for during our routine functioning. It can greatly improve our self-esteem and make us feel whole as it offers us the opportunity to call the shots. I've known many Tops who said their resolve to complete projects at the workplace boosted after interacting with their bottoms.

For bottoms, finding themselves in a position of openness is what drives them. When we're in dynamic positions away from the BDSM world, we tend to wish to lose control. Being tied provides us the potential to experience our surroundings more perceptively. We're required to feel the hand between our legs, to concentrate on the private areas that are being stimulated, and to be at the wish of our Tops. This experience is what makes us bottoms. It makes us want more because being vulnerable is a pleasure.

One of the elements I love about bondage is how open-ended the activity might be. It doesn't always inevitably involve sexual stimulation. When it's used creatively, it might be for fetish images where the bottom is skillfully placed in a position of humility. They might be decorated with rope, chains, tape, or other straps made as bondages. They could have their legs spread by a spreader bar or even be tied up like a pig being prepared for slaughter. However the bottom loves to be manipulated, it can end up being a true object of art.

On the erotic side, being bound is visually and physically pleasing. There's nothing more beguiling than seeing my bottom strapped to the bed. It's physically stimulating for them as much as it is for me, so we both benefit from this pastime. Being able to position their bottom in the air for a paddling without worrying about them escaping is stimulating. Having their legs spread with their genitals exposed for stroking is beyond enthralling. I simply can't get enough of it. I've noticed in these instances that the stimulation begins visually for me. Seeing them vulnerable instantly awakens my dominant side and I begin to fill the role almost immediately.

One of my favorites part of bondage includes the physical arousal. The elementary feeling of feeling restrained offers me a pleasure inexplicable. My subs have told me many times how the sensation drives them forward, how having something to pull on escalates their enjoyment. A couple of them prefer rope while others prefer leather-the fabric doesn't matter to me as long as I'm able to tie them up with it. Though I'm commonly a Top, I do indulge in switching positions periodically and allowing my sub to put me in a defenseless position. Rope has always been my personal favorite for this switch because of how lovely the silk rope feels on my skin. It makes me feel beautiful in ways that most clothes can't which is the biggest appeal for me.

Though I usually use bondage for joy, I also like to use bondage for physical punishment. A bratty sub might find themselves cuffed to the toilet in the bathroom. "You're filthy," I'll say to them. "So, you might as well be hooked to something gross." I'll leave them there for 20 minutes, check on them sporadically, and then take them out whenever I feel that they have learned their lesson. Many times, I'll tie them like a hog and leave them in the living-room for others to see their agony and shame at not heeding their Top. It brings me bliss to see them break-and I'm more than positive it makes them feel much the same.

From physical joy to aesthetic thrill, bondage has a place in every kinky heart. It's wide range of uses continues to inspire us during our scenes and increasingly provides satisfaction on all levels. Both Tops and bottoms alike who love bondage can attest to the amazing ways they have been freed from their own bonds, whether that be work or personal. However you enjoy bondage, it's clear that it is just one of the essential in the BDSM community. Anyway, where would BDSM be without the B?



For many kinky people, bondage is a huge part of their interaction with their fetish partner. It's interesting to see the varied reasons many people give for engaging in bondage, and mine aren't too terribly far from theirs.

Tops often engage in bondage for a number of reasons. I tend to use bondage for pleasure, I also like to use bondage for punishment. Both Tops and bottoms alike who love bondage can attest to the amazing ways they have been freed from their own bonds, whether that be work or personal.